Picking Up Women – Why You Are STILL Not Approaching Women – Dating Tips For Shy Guys

Learn To Pick Up Women Naturally, Without Lines, Scripts, Routines: http://www.approachatwill.com Being able to “pick up women” is an obsession for many guys…
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25 Responses to Picking Up Women – Why You Are STILL Not Approaching Women – Dating Tips For Shy Guys

  1. Abby Skelton says:

    This video is really good cause I have a shy boyfreind and his name is
    matthew we both live in clinton sc I love him very very much thanks for the
    awsome video love yall not cheating on my boyfreind ever

  2. Darth Revan says:

    I used to be pretty shy when it came to girls. Based on my experience with
    girls, I’d say that you should just hit the gym, and get into gear with it.
    I am now 16 and believe me, once I started getting bigger and stronger,
    girls started noticing me more! They started coming to me! Trust me on this!

  3. Oliver Horner says:

    This guy may well be very wise, but the subtitles are fucking hilarious!

  4. Arngothor61192 says:

    Everybody has accents so that was irrelevant. Just sayin’ :)

  5. TheDudezer says:

    German guys know their stuff.

  6. flonga2302 says:

    This was exactly what I needed to hear. I learn everything, but I was
    always stuck in my head. I really needed this, I’ll take action now!

  7. Michael Bornnard says:

    I don’t care what women want. I’m not here to please them.

  8. RossMats says:

    Thanks for the vid Stephan. ;)

  9. sammynaana says:

    hello stephan, pls how do i get ur skype username? or email or something!
    al like to hear from you live.

  10. vacant2012 says:

    “There’s no rejection, only feedback.” If you take that concept to heart, I
    suppose it doesn’t really matter what your explicit goal is. The way you
    worded your post, it sounded as if “shifting the goal” cheapens the
    interaction for you somehow, because you’re no longer “dependent” on
    getting approval from the girl, just avoiding getting shot. My point is
    that, when it comes to socializing, thinking less (Stephan’s too I think)
    about an interaction is almost always a good thing.

  11. jeff cunningham says:

    dude that’s just it, you think you are but your not, watch his videos i
    promise you will think different of yourself.. trust me i used too think
    the same but now i’m better, talking too girls is like putting butter on
    toast, and it all because of this guy, trust he knows his shit.. watch all
    is videos Your welcome.

  12. NightWatchI3 says:

    It just makes me and the other person feel awkward, while the only think I
    supposably gain is the fact that it will be less awkward for me next time,
    so it goes in circles, it makes absolutely no sense if this is your goal.
    It’s like if you get a stranger and start cutting yourself and him with a
    razor only to get better at cutting people. Your subconscious mind knows
    you are not masochist or sadist so such recursive goal doesn’t make any
    sense to it and it can’t feel motivated to do so. Continu

  13. Frank Komisar says:

    Hey Stephan, I couldn’t agree with you on this more. For me the best way to
    make use of your lessons is to take them in as casually as I can, and then,
    just forget about it. Let the sub-concious take care of things. I have
    never for once concentrated on anything you say here while out ‘on the
    pull’, but I know that it helps because of the results I am getting. So I
    say, relax and let the present flow, and make the best of the situation.

  14. waterdrinker9 says:

    I know, just making a joke. Even Stephen liked.

  15. luckyyu2004 says:

    great one stephan. NICELY DONE. i have been on stephan for a year and it is
    great, last semester i had six classes and i got girls from every single
    one. here is my tips to all of you. JUST DO IT, if you see a girl you want
    to talk to and situation allowed, say whatever you have it your mind to
    her, JUST SAY IT. it is ok even it comes out embarrassing or awkward, you
    know why, you took the risk as MAN should be while almost 9 out 10 guys
    over there are avoiding. you are the man

  16. TheDudezer says:

    He is definitely German are you kidding. He may not live in Germany but he
    is totally German.

  17. vacant2012 says:

    Your goal should never be “to get the girl.” Yes, getting the girl is a
    nice side effect, but there are too many variables at play to reliably be
    able to have a “great” interaction with every girl you talk to. Your goal
    should be “to approach,” which is the only real variable you have any
    control over. You definitely can’t control the woman’s reactions to you, so
    “shifting the goal,” as you say, is actually a good thing in the long run.

  18. NightWatchI3 says:

    Therefore it deduces that your actual goal is something else which is to
    get the girl (howevery you might interpret that). In summary: you can’t lie
    to your subconscious, your subconscious is in control of your feelings,
    motivation is a feeling. End.

  19. Will Smith says:

    u should never get in. can be that you are too nice, that you wait too long
    on physical contact, that the subjects u talk about are not interesting, or
    you should pick the girls out more carefully the ones that gives you signs
    and flirt with you. or you can be too scared too takes risks. its great u
    talk to them now you just have to create your own game. the exact reasons
    only you can find out but this might help a bit helped me ;p

  20. raz negar says:

    Lol! you read my mind

  21. Zhemin Lin says:

    LoL, Lets HOPE NOT ;”D

  22. Dara Smyth says:

    thanks for your videos stephan,very helpful.im 41 never being been good at
    approaching or talking to women while out.But im getting better.Who did the
    subtitles on the video,really love the bit with the finger puppets,was that
    put in for fun!

  23. Stephan Erdman | Authentic Game says:

    That’s right. /;=|

  24. vacant2012 says:

    This analogy doesn’t make any sense. Do you really think talking to a new
    girl is like cutting yourself with a razor blade? The probability of you
    spending the rest of your life with any individual girl you talk to is so
    infinitesimally small that worrying about the “outcome” of any one
    interaction is stupid. This is real life; “soul mates” don’t exist. No
    matter how “debilitating” the interaction is for you, I guarantee that the
    girl will have forgotten about you by the next day.

  25. dragonswed002 says:

    U shuld tell dem to be confident about their self and have the Im going to
    fail mind-set trust me it works.

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